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beautycounter scarlet lip sheer review

It took me a few weeks months, but I finally got a photo of the newest addition to the lip sheers, Scarlet. In my humble opinion, it’s by far the best one. (Also, it’s interesting to look back at those review photos pre-bangs. What’s your opinion? Bangs or no?)

Okay! Carry on! Happy Tuesday! Whoever said summer is a relaxing time of year is craaaay.


Sensitive to Sunscreens? Let Me Help You With That.


If you are (un)lucky enough to follow my Facebook page, you probably noticed me bitching about discussing my never-ending search for a safe, non-chemical sunscreen that doesn’t melt my family’s faces off.

Sunscreen is a huge issue during the warmer months, given a hefty dose of Irish running through 3/4ths of us. A few weeks ago, I had my third basal cell carcinoma removed from my body, so it’s important that I protect as much of my skin from the sun as possible. You know, besides cloaking myself in a full-body muumuu. (Is that how you spell “muumuu?” Quick aside…writing the word “muumuu” triggered this mental cascade: Muumuu -> Hawaii -> The incredibly hot Hawaiian actor who played Khal Drogo on the Game of Thrones. I love him and his scary eye makeup and the ponytail thingy and his beard. The end.)

p.s. – I just recently started watching Game of Thrones, and seriously, what is up with the gruesome violence? How do you people watch that without wincing/dry heaving/sobbing? I think I witnessed 1,267 beheadings in the first 10 minutes of the the first episode. Oh, I know, I know, THE WRITING IS SOOO GOOD.

p.p.s. – Please, no spoilers. I’m only on Season 2.

p.p.p.s. – Wait. Was this post about sunscreen?

Sunscreen. Here’s the gist. I can’t wear chemical sunscreens – they absolutely torch my skin. Some common chemical sunscreens are Avobenzone, Homosalate, Octisalate, Octocrylene, and Oxybenzone. Look at the sunscreens lying around your house; chances are they contain one or all of the above.

Let me take a step back and explain the difference between chemical and physical sunscreens. Chemical sunscreens contain special ingredients that act as filters and reduce ultraviolet radiation penetration to the skin. These sunscreens often are colorless and maintain a thin visible film on the skin, but can also penetrate. These sunscreens usually contain UVB absorbing chemicals and more recently contain UVA absorbers as well.

Physical Sunscreens, most often referred to as sunblocks, are products containing ingredients such a Titanium Dioxide and Zinc Oxide which physically block ultraviolet radiation (UVR). Sunblocks provide broad protection against both UVB and UVA light, and they don’t readily absorb into the skin like their chemical counterparts. They can be thicker to apply, but it is an easy trade-off for my family, personally.

A few weeks ago, I was forced asked to send my kids to camp with a spray sunscreen. (Please, if you are using spray sunscreens, stop right now. They are horrible for many reasons.) Being the rule follower I am, I obeyed and began an extremely robust search for a spray sunscreen that was relatively less harmful for my kiddos. I chose a spray due to its decent rating on the EWG’s 2015 Sunscreen Report, and, well, sprayed and prayed, basically.

This was the result.


This was Day 3 of The Spray Sunscreen Rash of 2015, and it stuck around for almost a week, despite a strong prescription antihistamine. Poor guy, right? His eyes were practically swollen shut on a few of those days.

Turns out the spray had a few chemical sunscreens in it, and my son’s face did not approve of that juncture. At all.

Back to the drawing board. Knowing that my skin has always responded well to Zinc Oxide and Titanium Dioxide (physical sunblocks), I cut out any option that included chemical sunscreens.

I think this is a good time to point out that chemical sunscreens work well for many people. If you wear a chemical sunscreen and it doesn’t produce an allergic reaction, by all means, continue to wear it. There are reports that chemical sunscreens can cause harm, but I’ll let you make that decision. However, this post is really meant for those of us who can’t tolerate the chemicals on our skin.

I have used a few physical blocks in the past with decent success, but have found the holy grail and wanted to tell you all about it. Protect All Over Sunscreen SPF 30. It is fantastic – the active ingredient is 19% Zinc Oxide, and the lightweight, water-resistant formula blends into skin without leaving white streaks or a weird smell. (If ordering online isn’t your thing, just check sunscreen labels at your local drugstore or Target…look for Zinc Oxide or Titanium Oxide as the active ingredient, although I can’t promise it will be as pleasing as the Protect Sunscreen.) Additionally, I used to wonder if SPF 30 was enough for my children, but now that it’s been proven that super high SPFs are a marketing ploy, I feel extremely comfortable using SPF 30 on my the entire family’s skin.

It is yet another great product from Beautycounter, and you know how much I love their lip sheers. And Tint Skin. And, well, the entire Countertime line and kids’ line. (What I’m trying to say is that if you’re wanting to pull the trigger on a product, please ask me in the comments because chances are I’m using it right now.)

And while we’re talking Beautycounter, here’s my no-fail, go-to, daily Beautycounter face.


Skin: Tint Skin in Linen. (Although I use Sand in the summer.) A light dusting of Matte Bronzer No. 1 on my temples, forehead, and bridge of nose.

Cheeks: Color Sweep Blush Duo in Bloom/Tulip or Cream Blusher in Hibiscus.

Eyes: Color Shade Eye Duo in Oyster/Amethyst. Eye Pencil in Black. (Beautycounter doesn’t make a mascara yet. I use Tarte Gifted Mascara.)

Lips: Lip Sheer in Twig or Petal topped with Lip Gloss in Peony. (You can see all the color swatches on me here. Also, they have now added Scarlet, which is the perfect red!)

*For a bronze, summery look, I switch out my blush to the Tawny/Whisper shade, the eye shadow to the Peach/Bronze duo, and the eye pencil to the Brown shade.

**And if I want to add a little sumthin’ sumthin’ for a night out, I will line the inner rims of my eyes with the black pencil and switch to the Scarlet Lip Sheer. Easy peasy.

So, there you go. A sunscreen post that morphed into a everyday look tutorial with a side of Game of Thrones. Multi-tasking FTW.


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Odds and Ends



1. There really are two kinds of people. Which one are you?

2. This anonymous Instagram account is so sweet.

3. How foreigners distinguish Americans. I have to say, I can’t argue with most of it.

4. Wito’s feet are officially as big as mine. I made him put on my sandals as proof. (p.s. – those sandals are only $65, peeps!)

5. This new resource is fantastic for party planning!

6. Haha, how many of this friend type do you have on Facebook? I definitely have a few.

7. NEW EMOJIS. I’ve needed a taco for years!

Happy Friday to you! Today is Dustin’s 40th birthday, so we have a fun weekend planned. #notoldjustdistinguished

image credit: mia christopher




Odds and Ends



1. I certainly wouldn’t mind if I was stuck at an airport and this was happening in front of me.

2. Um, creepy drawing alert.

3. Interesting article about J. Crew. Do you shop there? I haven’t bought anything from the brand in years.

4. I’m in love with this palm leaf one-piece. I also want to wear this when I get out of the pool.

5. Hipsters are so done. Enter the yuccie.

6. I always love The Oatmeal – did you read the Apple watch post?

7. Rest in peace, beards. My heart is breaking. (Although, the beard thing is a little out of control in OKC. I think I’m ready for a change.)

8. How are cars and neighborhoods are pulling us apart. Great read.

9. Pretty food arrangements always get me.

10. Stop the press. The lip glosses are HERE. The peony shade is mine, all mine.

Happy Friday to you all!

image credit: jenny andrews anderson