4.13 – Short, Medium or Long?

Meet Stephanie. She has experimented with many different lengths, as you can see here.

From Stephanie’s email:

When I’m just going for a straight style with the ends slightly curled under, this only really works when it’s short.  When it falls to my shoulders/clavicle, those curled under ends are flipped up in minutes.  This is generally okay at the length I have now (which is about 1-2inches past my clavicle) since it’s cut in layers and I’m happy to just sort of shake my fingers through it and let the pieces fall where they may.  (I rarely go for straight, smooth styles. Aside from refusing to stay that way, for some reason, I find it gets more coarse/tangly when I try to keep it straight and flat!)  And when it’s long, I tend to like curls best because then my misbehaving hair is allowed to misbehave!  (It’s not wavy enough to try to create waves – oh how I’ve tried!)  

1. What color is your hair? Do you color/highlight your hair? If so, what color?

Dark brown. Never dyed it before! A small handful of not-so-brown-anymore ones are scattered around, mostly hidden thankfully!  But I know I’ll need to lose my hairdye virginity soon enough…

2. What condition is your hair? (Dry, Oily, Normal, Chemically-processed, etc.)

Normal! Although I pretty much prefer to wash it daily. I can get away with a ponytail on the day after a wash, but the bangs need some dry shampoo.  Day 3 is a MUST WASH.

3. What type of hair do you have? (Fine, Thick, Wavy, Curly, Straight, etc.)

Not stick straight, but not wavy either. It’s more thick than thin, and more fine than coarse.  (Happy medium, I’d say!)

4. Tell me about your lifestyle. What are you looking for in a hairstyle?

Married, two dogs, no kids, office job.  I like to get outdoors on weekends; plenty of dates with my husband and outings with friends. For the most part, whether I’m in pajamas and no make up or in my best dress and heels, I like for my hair to be “done”.  It just makes me feel better.

5. How much time are you willing to spend styling your hair each day?

No more than 20 minutes.  (For the record, it takes me about 15min to blow it dry, section by section, with a round brush.)

6. Do you have a preference for length? If so, what?

In Feb 2010 I cut off 12inches for Locks of Love.  I didn’t enjoy having it that long, but I do like long hair (I like to curl it). Though I was surprised to find out how much I enjoyed the short hair too!  

7. What kind of products/tools do you use on a daily basis?

After washing, I spray on plenty of Tresemme Heat Defense or use some John Frieda Frizz-Ease Hair Serum – Thermal Protect.  And aside from the blowdryer + round brush, just a straightener.  When it’s long I’ll use a curling iron for the ends, straightener for the bangs.

8. Do you wear your hair in ponytails frequently?

Only on days I haven’t washed my hair – which happens maybe twice a week.  And at night to keep it off my face when I sleep.

9. What kind of environment do you live in? (Rainy, humid, high altitude, etc.)

I live in London, so we tend to get around 2-3 types of weather each day! Rainy – yes.  Humid – yes, if it’s raining in the summer.  Windy – often.  Otherwise, nothing extreme.

You know what, Sarah? I’ve just filled out this whole thing and attached all those photos and re-read what I wrote.. And I think the bottom line – what I’d really like to know – is WHAT LOOKS BETTER?  Short, medium, or long?  

Stephanie, WE ARE HERE TO HELP YOU. Alright, team! Do you like Stephanie’s hair short, medium or long best? Vote now! (Don’t peek below and let my answer sway you…)


My opinion? The medium, shoulder-grazing length is out. I know all to well about the flippy ends thing, and I find her hair to be much more interesting when it’s chin length or well past her shoulders. Now, as much as I like a long and loose-waved brunette (wink wink), I have to say that the chin-length bob is very striking on Stephanie. Her features are complimented so well by that length! The long hair is quite lovely, but I find my eyes going back to the short cut over and over.

My official plan of action? Since Stephanie has just past the dreaded flippy collarbone stage, enjoy the length! Let those locks grow throughout the winter, enjoy the long, loose waves, and then when spring rolls around, choppy chop back to the chin-length bob. Best of both worlds! What say you?

 

 

Paper Culture Holiday Cards

Last year, we used Paper Culture for our holiday cards.

We loved them. Loved them! In fact, I’m fairly certain we’ll never use another company for our holiday cards for years to come. Why, you ask? Oh, let me tell you!

1. Truly the best collection of designs ever.

2. All cards and envelopes are 100% post-consumer recycled, and the company is CarbonFree.

3. All cards are printed on 130lb paper (feels great in the hand) and have rounded corners.

4. FREE MAIL AND ADDRESSING SERVICE. Yes, you provide them a spreadsheet of addresses and Paper Culture will print, address, stamp and mail your cards for you. Awwww, yeah. (You still pay postage for the cards, but no other fees.) Do you know how much time that saves? DO YOU? Especially the second year, when your spreadsheet is already made?

Look at some of the darling designs.

Pretty fantastic, right?

Now, apparently, D and I enjoy torturing ourselves because we prefer to capture the elusive Perfect Holiday Card Photo without the aid of a professional photographer. (What can I say? We’re neurotic.)  This year’s photo involved three locations, four cameras, an unexpected rain delay, 6 (failing) props to encourage smiling, including but not limited to, a talking Elmo doll and a furry King Charles Spaniel dog toy, and at least 17,000 meltdowns. (Did I mention I had a raging head cold? That we’re still getting over 9 days later? bleeerrrrrgh)

On the way home from our torturous shoot, we happened upon a completely awesome, beat-up blue wall. We grabbed some sidewalk chalk, let the kids go to town, and snapped some photos. Luckily, we captured one that we loved.

Hooray for semi-happy children looking at the camera! VICTORY IS OURS.

If you are looking for stylish and unique cards, please check out Paper Culture’s holiday cards. (By the way, they aren’t limited to just holiday cards by any means. Tons of stationary, invites, and these adorable bamboo wall art pieces.)

Just for you all, the lovely folks at Paper Culture are offering 20% off all cards through 12/31/11. Just use the code WHOORL at checkout, and you’ll receive 20% off your card order. Now you have NO reason to drag your feet in regards to holiday cards. Get to it!

Enter your code at checkout. Expires 12/31. Not combinable. Not applicable to taxes, shipping, handling or gift certificates. No cash value.

Drybar – Newport Beach

Last week, I was invited by the lovely folks at Drybar to drop in the salon and enjoy a complimentary blowout. Trust me, it was time, as you can tell from the following photo.

It had been several days, ladies and gents. Mama needed a wash.

Upon arriving at the salon, I fell in love immediately. The design was chic, the branding was adorable, and the staff was super friendly.

Love the yellow!

Lovely, right?

And Drybar has the best chandelier in town, for sure.

Plus, the entire line of Moroccan Oil products.

After a relaxing shampoo, I chose from the menu of blowout options. (Such a great concept because we all know that not all blowouts are the same!)

I chose the Straight Up, which is DryBar’s signature blowout. (Straight with body, although we ended up using a large-barreled curling iron as the finishing step for me.)

And voilá!

The best part? The blowout lasted 4 days.

If you have a Drybar in your area, I highly recommend checking it out. Loved every minute!

Hair Thursday Tutorials on Style United

I am so excited to announce that the super secret project I’ve been working on this entire year just launched! Style United!

This is truly a one-stop shop for all things beauty, hair, and style. I’ve been writing articles and filming all sorts of tutorials, and I hope you all enjoy it as much I do!

Here are just a few of my contributions to Style United, but be sure to check out all the great content on the website. (All of my articles and videos can be found here.)

6 Chic Ways to Tie a Scarf

The Best Fall Hairstyles

How to Fake a Fresh Face

How to Get Shinier Hair

4 Easy Braids for Every Day

 

 

Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray

Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray is no joke, people. NO JOKE. It would best be described as a clear dry shampoo, and does a great job refreshing hair that hasn’t been washed, BUT the real deal is its ability to create massively sexy volume. That volume I’m rocking on the right is just the spray, nothing else. I just flip over, spray the texturizing spray throughout my dry hair, blast my hair around with my blowdryer for a couple seconds, flip back up and voila! Crazy sexy bedhead volume. Plus, it smells ridiculously good. Love it. AM OBSESSED WITH IT. (Apparently, one of my hair idols loves it too.)

p.s. –  I happily dole out the cash for this stuff. And coming from a person who receives most of her hair products and services for free, that should say a lot!

Your Fall and Winter Haircare Questions Answered

Okay, ladies! How fantastic is it that your questions have been answered by Pantene’s Principal Scientist, Jeni Thomas? Pretty fantastic if you ask me! Without further ado!

Jillian – The static! I have long, thick hair and everything I wear in the winter makes my hair so static-y. I try to use anti-static spray on my sweaters, scarves and coats but it just doesn’t cut it. What do I do??

Jillian, static happens as hair is exposed to very dry environments, which often happens in the winter. Hair fibers lose the moisture they need to prevent the build-up of static charge. Humidifiers can help to add moisture to the air which can keep static at bay, but you often have more control over your hair than the air you are in. Use a good moisturizing conditioner (Pantene’s Dry to Moisturized versions), which can help insulate your hair. If you notice static occur as you go about your day, carry a good leave-on treatment with you (Pantene’s Medium-Thick Straighten and Smooth Crème is a great one!) for spot treatments that can calm static-y locks. Also, brushing hair with traditional brushes can create static – there are now anti-static brushes available, like the Braun Satin Hair Brush that uses active ion technology to neutralize static and immediately calm hair while you brush it.

Sara – The massive knots that build up at the back of my head in the winter when wear sweaters or drive a car (presumably because of rubbing of my hair against the sweater or head rest of the car). Help!

Sara, as rough hair fibers rub against each other or against other fibers, like wool fibers in a sweater, they can easily entangle. Fibers with a smooth surface are less likely to tangle. To smooth rough fibers, be sure to condition your hair every time you wash – smoothing versions can help if you have medium or thick hair and can handle weightier conditioners. If you have finer hair, go for a fine-haired version like Pantene’s Fine, Dry to Moisturized conditioner. Using a detangling spray after your shower will also help to smooth fibers and prevent tangles.

Jen – I get terrible split ends when the weather gets cold but I honestly do NOT want to cut my long hair. how can I fix them or at least hide them?? something other than a cut?

Jen, we’ve seen in the lab that it is easier to create split ends in dry conditions than in humid conditions, so I’m not surprised that you are seeing more in colder weather. You can repair split ends and prevent new ones from forming with a product like Pantene’s Split-end Repair Crème – this can help extend your hair’s “life” between cuts when you apply to the ends of damp or dry hair. Be sure to reapply after each wash as the technology that helps to bind existing split ends will be washed away when you shampoo your hair.

Cristin Curry – My hair always breaks off when it gets cold. no good. help me fix it please!

Cristin, cold, dry air can leave hair brittle and prone to breakage. You need a good strengthening regimen to help keep your hair strong against damage. Pantene’s Strengthening shampoo and conditioner systems can help – be sure to find the system that is right for your hair type as they are available for Fine hair and Medium-Thick hair. If you use heated styling tools like flat irons or curling irons, try to minimize the amount of heat your hair is exposed to by using as few passes as possible and lowering the heat setting. Also, be sure to use a heat protection spray before passing the iron through your hair, as it can give an extra layer of protection against damaging heat.

Kara – My hair is very fine, but I have a lot of it. I let it air dry as it’s naturally wavy. The problem: no matter what I do or what conditioning products I use, I get a small rat’s nest in the bottom layer. It doesn’t matter if my (layered) hair reaches my collar bone or mid-back. I’ve had no color on it, some highlights, used clear glosses, etc. Help me!

Kara, your concerns are not uncommon for naturally wavy or curly hair, despite the efforts you are taking to care for your hair. The natural twists and turns of wavy/curly hair create rough spots along the fiber, which can easily snag as fibers rub across each other. In addition to conditioning every time you shampoo (a smoothing or moisturizing version should help), I would recommend adding a leave-in treatment, such as Pantene’s Curly Anti-Frizz Straightening Crème, to the ends of your layers when your hair is dry – even if you’re not trying to straighten your hair, this will help to smooth your ends and cut down on the snags.

Jeanette – My hair is color treated but my scalp is way too oily so I must wash every day but I can’t condition every day. If I don’t condition my hair gets horribly static-y. Please help my confused hair.

Jeanette, this is a very common problem for color-treated hair, which is easily stripped of the moisture it needs to combat static, especially in the dry winter air. If you’re not already using a shampoo for color-treated hair, you should consider switching. Color-treated hair responds to conditioning ingredients differently than hair that has not been color-treated, so products designed specifically to work on color-treated hair, like Pantene’s Color Preserve shampoos, can be more effective in doing their jobs – which includes helping hair hold onto the moisture it needs to keep static at bay longer. Conditioning is especially important for color-treated hair, which tends to be dry and breakage-prone. If your scalp is too oily, avoid applying conditioner to the roots of your hair. Instead, try applying from the middle of your head down to the tips to strike a better balance between the moisturization that your hair needs without giving your scalp oils an easy path down your hair fibers.

Kate – As others have mentioned I get the worst tangles in the back, underneath layers of my hair. I am assuming it’s from friction with scarves, coat collars etc. but it looks horrible and is really damaging those sections of my hair (truth be told, this happens all year round for me but seems worse in the Winter) ~ my hair is long (well below my shoulders, medium thickness, straight and color treated. It seems that the longer my hair gets the more this seems to happen. Any suggestions?

Kate, the longer your hair is, the more it has experienced. The portion of your hair below your shoulders has most likely been through 3+ years of summers, styling, color treatments, etc which leave the ends much rougher than the roots. You’re exactly right that as the rougher fibers rub against your scarves, collars, and sweaters, the friction that is created can be damaging – the types of fibers your hair encounters can change the amount of friction that is created (for example, wool can create more than silk), which is why this tends to be a winter concern. I would recommend using a leave-on treatment on your ends to smooth the rough spots and minimize friction – my top pick is Pantene’s Split-end Repair Crème, which has gone through testing in the lab to ensure it minimizes damaging friction. After you style your hair, rub some of the crème in your palm and lightly spread it across the fibers that may come into contact with your clothes. You can also carry it with you if you feel you need a spot treatment later in the day.

Caroline – Since my baby was born I’ve noticed my hairline gets oily while my ends are exceptionally dry- esp. with the e colder weather. Pre-baby, I tackled this dryness with deep conditioning treatments but now they just weigh my hair down and contribute to the oiled scalp/hairline. Help!

Caroline, the hormonal changes that come with pregnancy and childbirth can cause major changes to your hair and scalp – in addition to all of the other physical changes! Many women notice their hair becomes thinner in the months after childbirth as the hair growth process goes through some natural adjustments. You should change your hair care routine to suit the hair type you have now. Pantene’s Ultra-Light Moisturizing Treatment for fine hair may be a good substitute for the deep conditioning treatments you’ve been using – it’s a great option for hair that needs moisturization but is weighed down by heavier products. Try applying the treatment from the tips of your hair up, covering the bottom ¾ of the fiber’s length but avoiding your scalp/hairline. Keep in mind that your hair may continue to change before finding its new normal – if you notice your hair type change again, be sure to change your products to match it.

SpyceGurl – I just came in from a walk in very windy, dry conditions. After a perfect blowout this morning, my static and flyways make me look like a need to return to my home in Fraggle Rock – stuck to my face, my neck, flying above my head. Every year i think I’ll try to grow my hair out a little, and every year, i end up cutting it off because of the static and flatness! I have shoulder length hair and use Redken shampoo and conditioner, Bumble and Bumble thickening spray, and a little bit of styling crème. I don’t wash every day, and conditioning too often seems to make things worse, i use a Moroccan oil conditioner once every two weeks. Getting desperate as winter approaches, may have to cut it all off – again!!

SypceGurl, thanks for the flashback to Fraggle Rock, and I remember all too well their out-of-control hair – definitely not what most women want for their hair! After your blowout, you had a certain level of moisture in your hair, which most likely dropped after being in windy, dry conditions. As this happened, your hair didn’t have the moisture it needed to dissipate charge, so static charge built up, causing your hair to both fly-away and be attracted to your skin.

Instead of cutting, consider a few hair care changes. Conditioning every time you wash your hair will help, as conditioners and oils can provide some insulation from static charge – just be sure to find the right conditioning weight for your hair (from your description, sounds like a version for finer hair may be best). You might also try using hairspray – it creates temporary “welds” between fibers, and it is harder for a group of fibers to flyaway than it is for single, unattached fibers to get out of line.

Thanks so much for taking time to answer our questions, Jeni!!