odds and ends

Serena William’s retirement, in her own words. An emotional read.

Whoops, we forgot women could still vote.

This has changed the game in terms of undereye darkness. (I use peach in warmer months and pink when I’m less tan.)

Elevated tween screen time linked to disruptive behavior. Shocker.

How to self-induce a coma that will last until Season 4 of Succession.

First fall dress purchase.

Best thing I watched this week.

Dermstore anniversary sale! Here are my top picks.

Obsessed with Sienna Miller’s country cottage.

Do you like bananas/chocolate/baked goods? Need to make this immediately.

Yes it’s hot AF outside, but I just bought this and am counting the days until I can wear it.

Happy Friday! Making a quick girls’ trip to Dallas before school starts. Wishing you a wonderful weekend.

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Odds and Ends

It’s National Lipstick Day! Have you ever known a person to love lipstick more than yours truly?

My top 10 all-time favorite lipstick shades.

Looking for the perfect red? A few personal tips + my favorite shades.

Nude lipsticks can be tricky. Knowing your undertone can help – here are my faves.

Flat vs. rolling: what’s your packing style?

Wearing these white jeans constantly right now.

The case for being friends before dating.

Emily Dickinson poem or an early aughts emo lyric?

20 vintage photos of Jackie Kennedy.

Y’all always asking me about what bra I wear under my summer dresses. Best ever.

100 best hotels in the world.

How caffeine became the world’s favorite drug.

Happy Friday! Wishing you a wonderful weekend – we’ve been in Laguna Beach and it’s been such a nice break from the oppressive Oklahoma heat.

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Every Woman Needs a Red Lipstick

Best red lipsticks in green beauty

From top to bottom: Kjaer Weis KW Red, RMS Rebound, Clove + Hallow Damsel, Fitglow Love, RMS Jezebel, Rituel de Fille Devil’s Claw, Vapour Courage, Kosas Thrillest

Ladies, can we have a chat? I want to know…what’s it going to take to persuade you to try red lipstick? A vibrant, beautiful red lipstick can absolutely transform a face. Yes, it’s an attention-grabber. Yes, it takes confidence. But I know you can do it, and I’m going to share the best natural red lipsticks in green beauty with you.

Believe it or not, I didn’t start wearing bold lipsticks until about 10 years ago in my late thirties. For years and years, I pined over images of women wearing a bold red, but I didn’t dare! I mean, I didn’t want that much attention focused on my lips. What would people think?! (That I’m a confident, vivacious woman who enjoys a bold lipstick? QUELLE HORREUR.) I even remember being at a black-tie gala with my good friend who rocks a red lip like no other when I was in my late twenties. She persuaded me to try hers (it was MAC Ruby Woo, I remember it like yesterday), and I applied it in the bathroom. I loved loved loved the way it looked on me, but wiped it off before returning to the party. What is up with that, my friends? Pure ridiculousness, that’s what.

I was scared to wear an assertive color on my face. I didn’t want to seem like I was attention-seeking. “A nice muted pink gloss should suit a lady like me just fine,” I thought. (Rolling my eyes.) When I look back, it really was a larger issue than just wearing red lipstick. I was afraid to be seen. Afraid to abandon a more conservative look. Afraid to stand out.

Well, if you know me at all, you know that is no longer a problem. I love me a bold lipstick.

But let’s put a red lipstick’s confidence-boosting ability aside. What are some other positives of wearing red lipstick?

1. It’s a classic look that’s been around for decades. Think Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, Coco Chanel.

2. It makes you look younger. Oh, I know some of you are going to balk at that statement, but it has been scientifically proven that what people find youthful in a face is the contrast of features. (Dark lashes/eyebrows, deep lips.) As we age, those features become noticeably paler and we begin to look more washed out. When you wear a red/bold lipstick, you create that contrast again.

3. It lifts your mood. A bright lipstick makes you feel more chipper and even more powerful. Coco Chanel was right when she said, “if you’re sad, add more lipstick and attack.”

4. It increases feelings of self-worth. Vain? Maybe, but when you take the time to care for yourself, it makes a lasting impact psychologically.

5. IT LOOKS GOOD.

So, ladies. Heed my word and get some red lipstick in your queue. And you don’t have to go full-bore like yours truly and apply straight out of the bullet. Gently pat your finger on the lipstick and then dab on your lips for a much subtler effect. Baby steps, but I promise you’ll be rocking those red lips in no time.

Here are the 8 best red lipsticks in my book!

Shade: Lisa Eldridge True Velvet Lipstick in Ribbon
Tone: Universal, classic neutral blue red
Finish: Matte

Kjaer Weis KW Red Lipstick

Shade: Kjaer Weis Lipstick in KW Red 
Tone: Classic neutral red
Finish: Satin matte (If you are looking for a natural matte, KW also makes this shade in the Matte, Naturally formula.)

Shade: Gen See Pick Me Up Matte Lipstick in Irene (can’t stop wearing the Gen See lipsticks this year)
Tone: True Red
Finish: Matte

Shade: Gen See Pick Me Up Matte Lipstick in Selma
Tone: Orange Red
Finish: Matte

RMS Wild With Desire Lipstick in Rebound

Shade: RMS Wild With Desire Lipstick in Rebound
Tone: Ruby Red
Finish: Satin

Clove + Hallow Lip Creme in Damsel

Shade: Clove + Hallow Lip Créme in Damsel
Tone: Bold blue-red
Finish: Semi-matte

Shade: Lisa Eldridge True Velvet Lipstick in Jazz
Tone: Earthy, brick red
Finish: Matte

RMS Wild With Desire Lipstick in Jezebel

Shade: RMS Wild With Desire Lipstick in Jezebel
Tone: Blackberry red
Finish: Satin

Rituel de Fille Enchanted Lip Sheer in Devil's Claw

Shade: Rituel de Fille Enchanted Lip Sheer in Devil’s Claw
Tone: Warm red with subtle gold sheen
Finish: Semi-matte

Kosas Lip Color in Thrillest

Shade: Kosas Lip Color in Thrillest
Tone: Poppy orange-red
Finish: Semi-matte

Questions about natural red lipsticks in general or these particular shades? Hit me up in the comments!

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The best skincare for ladies over 40!

My morning and evening skincare routine.

Odds and Ends

How to build a good day when you’re full of despair over the state of the world.

These swimsuits need good homes.

Actually, maybe it is time for Democrats to go low.

20% off and free shipping on Avene this weekend with the code HOWL20! I will have these 4 products in my cabinet for life.

Simple, inexpensive sneakers in every color under the sun.

What New Yorker writers are reading this summer.

What are “vibes” exactly and how have they entered political rhetoric?

Best clean setting spray on the market. Loving it this summer.

The magic of a little danger.

I have sadly quit Pilates for good (can’t pay for both the classes and the physical therapy I need when I’m doing it), so I’m back on the Tracy Anderson train.

The absolute GOAT of body lotions for summer. Smells like coconut and I’m thoroughly obsessed.

Stanley Tucci’s travel pet peeves and favorite spots.

When it’s too hot to cook, try these recipes. (It was 106 here yesterday OMG.)

Happy Friday! It’s clearly hot AF here and I hate summer with a raging passion, but you probably already knew that.

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The 2nd video featuring my OKC food excursions just went live! I absolutely adored cooking with Florence in her kitchen at Florence’s Restaurant. How could you not love her?!

Please tell me you saw Prince Louis’s faces during the Queen’s Jubilee. This mash-up is hilarious.

My summer lip + cheek combo is near perfection. Wearing both here.

Listen, no one can tell that the F1 Ferrari team doesn’t have the best-looking drivers.

The pink and the horsebit?! I can’t take the cuteness.

8 rules for throwing a dinner party.

It’s on Backwards, the clothing subscription box for toddlers. lol

20% off Ilia is ending soon! Here are my top picks from the brand.

It’s that time of year – we blow through this sunscreen lotion and spray.

The strange and secret ways animals perceive the world.

Every question you have about Just Like That: Season 2, answered.

Happy Friday! Wishing you a wonderful weekend.

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Odds and Ends

Songs that should be on your sex playlist.

It’s official. If you have sensitive skin and retinol products freak you out, you are going to adore this serum. I’ve been using it for over a month and it totally gets the Whoorl stamp of approval…all the results with no sensitivity!

Old thinking will break your brain. Superb article.

Did you see the Mona Lisa get caked earlier this week? Luckily the painting has protective glass over it, but yikes.

The most annoying airline passengers. The “loud and proud” folks kill me dead.

Kosas is 20% off sitewide! My top three products are this, this, and this.

I’m heading to Florida next week with all my Left on Friday and Mara Hoffman suits and this adorable caftan.

Smart ways to cut a cake, according to Tik Tok.

Are you watching the new season of Stranger Things? The kids and I finished it last night!

Speaking of Stranger Things, Winona Ryder for Marc Jacobs is a 90s fantasy.

This article about the new Beach Plum La Croix flavor made me LOL.

Happy Friday! Wishing you a wonderful weekend.

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