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Color to dye for

Aleks(andra) is an editor in Chicago. When she’s not writing, attending sporting events with her husband, testing recipes, or watching teen-centered dramas, you can find her in the salon haircare aisles of Ulta and Sephora. She’ll be reviewing higher-end products for Hair Thursday.
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A few weeks ago my husband looked deep into my eyes and said:

“You’ve got some long gray hairs in the front.”

Harumph. I haven’t even hit the big 3-0, yet I’ve been finding the odd gray hair since college. Lately they’re not so odd, and they tend to be clustered right in my part and side-swept bangs.

For about as long as I’ve had grays, I’ve been experimenting with home hair dye with decent results (notwithstanding the time my cousin give me “chunky” highlights in the late 90s). As long as I stay within a couple shades of my natural color, a rich, medium brown, I could add shine and depth and mostly cover up those stray grays – while saving on professional coloring.

But, with the grays multiplying, I was considering getting my stylist involved. Enter Frederick Fekkai, maker of the beloved Glossing Crème. The celebrity stylist introduced Fekkai Salon Color, an at-home dye that promised salon results. I ordered Natalie – Medium Golden Brown (5W) – and blocked out a Sunday afternoon. Let me break it down for you:

Instructions: Clear and include helpful advice about using a clarifying shampoo once a week prior to coloring and putting conditioner or lotion around your hairline to keep dye from staining your skin.

Application: The method sets this dye apart. Instead of a squirt bottle that you shake and squeeze over your hair, you get a bowl and brush to mix the color, a pre-treatment, and an excellent post-coloring treatment conditioner. You paint the color on like a stylist would, and the mixture is thick, almost pudding-like, so it doesn’t drip. The processing time is 35 minutes, so keep a magazine handy.

Color: The color was lustrous and natural. It’s a little redder than my natural color, but my hair tends to “pull red” (stylist term) when I use warm and some neutral hair colors, but looks too flat with cool colors.* The gray coverage was excellent – better than any home dye I’ve tried. (Tip look for the number and letter on your hair dye box to see what category it falls into: W=warm, C=cool, and N= neutral and 2=dark and 8=light.)

Value: At $30 a box, Fekkai Color is nearly three times as much as regular home dyes, but a bargain compared to salon coloring, which runs $76-96 for single process at my salon.

Final verdict: For the easier-to-control application process and lovely results, I think it’s worth it. If you’re not happy with your at-home hair dye, but not ready to shell out for the pros, give it a whirl. (Or, should I say whoorl?)

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Thalon

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Sweet baby Thalon. The fair, red-headed boy amidst the sea of princess tiaras and Barbie dolls. The perfect representation of Gorillabuns’ Irish roots. Rich’s future partner-in-crime.

Thalon passed away yesterday afternoon surrounded by his adoring family.

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention wanting to punch the universe in the mouth right now. Really hard.

For those of you who have had the pleasure of meeting Shana in real life, you know she is quite the Mama Bear. Long before she birthed her three beautiful children, she was the kind of friend that would fight dragons tooth and nail for you. Fiercely protective. Loyal. She might even throw a Cape Cod in the face of your nemesis. You know, the kind of person you always want on your side.

However, behind that boisterous Mama Bear exterior lies the most enormous, the most feeling heart you could ever encounter. In all honesty, she’s a total sap.

I distinctly remember shortly after Moira’s birth, beached out on her couch with my own pregnant belly, talking about what an independent spirit her firstborn was. “Little Miss Thing (as she would call Celia) sure isn’t into the whole cuddling and hugging bit”. I remember nodding, thinking that Celia was a smart little girl because, well, touchy-feely people are STRANGE. Just at that moment, Celia sauntered over to Shana and gave her a huge bear hug, and as I looked over at my favorite fierce Mama Bear, I saw tears welling up in her eyes.

I remember hoping I could be a mother like that one day. One who cares so deeply about her babies that the simple act of a day-to-day hug could fill them with so much love that the tears flow.

I can’t begin to fathom what Shana, Rich and the girls are going through right now. To be honest, I won’t even allow myself to envision losing my child. What I do know is that they need all the positive thoughts and prayers that you can give them right now. Shana is so thankful for all of your love and concern – it has lifted her spirits tremendously.

I’ve been trying to think of what I can do right now, 1,400 miles away, to help before heading to Oklahoma. I’ve set up a Paypal donation button for anyone who wants to help Shana’s family with the expenses of Thalon’s hospital stay and funeral services. Please feel free to use the button on your website to help spread the word.

Donations would be greatly appreciated, but your thoughts and prayers are just as welcome.


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Meet Amy.

I love this chick. Look at her rocking the whoorl curl!

Amy’s hair:

Super dark brown
Normal condition
Thick – tends to poof while drying
Minimal wave
Would love longer hair, but has had shorter styles most of her life
Enjoys the versatility of longer hair
Uses a flat iron when straightening
Uses FF Glossing Cream

Amy is a super stylish gal and I like her hair. Given her personal style, she really could pull off a lot of looks, and I really want her to take it to the next level. You know, something that complements her new birthday tattoo. In all honesty, I think this haircut would be fantastic, but it might be bit too much for her (or for YOU WEENIES).

First things first. I can tell from the straight hair photo that her hair needs to be texturized a little more. It’s still a little too heavy when she straightens it. Don’t get me wrong – Amy has really great hair, but it just needs to be cut into a little bit. She mentioned how it becomes the dreaded triangle during the grow-out process, and I promise that heavier texturizing would eradicate that issue.

I also like to see movement around Amy’s face. The wave looks very nice with her face and forehead shape, but she complained that her hair doesn’t hold curl very well.

So, what to do…

If Amy wants to keep longer hair, I would suggest heavy texturizing and piecey-er (wow, that is NOT a word) bangs. Just something to give her style a little more oomph, ya know? Like so:

Love the bangs, love the length, love the texturized layers. Yep. I like this one. Except I would like to see a little more volume/movement, which I think would be a breeze for Amy to achieve with her specific hair texture and thickness. (Especially after texturizing.)

Now, if Amy wants to go shorter, I would recommend something like this:

I chose this specific photo of Katie Holmes because I like how it’s not super straight and has a little movement throughout.

What do you think? Long or short?