Beautiful Dresses + Illustrations = Love


Remember the gorgeous Oscar dress illustration? So, the peeps at Media Run did another one – this time for the Cannes Film Festival. Isn’t in lovely?


I have way too many favorites from this one, but if I had to pick my top five, they would be 1958, 1961, 1974 (my birth year!), 2008, and 2013.

What about you?


I Wear Birkenstocks Almost Every Day



If you follow on Instagram, you may have noticed that an old, familiar friend from college reentered my life a few months back. (Except this time I’m not wearing said friend with marbled wool socks and J. Crew rollneck sweaters while listening to Phish.) I think my Instagram comment says it best:

So here’s the thing about Birkenstocks. You buy a pair, promising yourself you won’t wear them all the time, except that they actually make your old lady back feel much better, and thus you become the chick who always wears Birkenstocks.

Yep, that’s me. The chick who wears Birkenstocks.

But, COME ON. They are pretty dang cute, right? And if you haven’t noticed, Birkenstocks are making a huge comeback right now. (Don’t just take my word for it!)

Forget the cuteness factor for a bit, and let’s talk comfort. My sore, old lady back feels 100 times better when I wear these shoes regularly, and I’m not remotely kidding. I LOVE MY BIRKENSTOCKS AND WILL SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOFTOPS.

It’s summer, you guys. Get a pair. Make it happen. Your feet and back will thank you tremendously. They come in about one trillion colors, so you’ll be sure to find a good match. (I personally have the black and stone. Because one pair just isn’t enough, people. You gotta trust me on this one.)


Mindful Monday: Happiness Hygiene



Let’s talk about happiness for a second. Holbrook Jackson said that “happiness is a form of courage,” and I wholeheartedly agree. It takes a lot of courage to be happy – to make the big (and sometimes scary) changes necessary to become a happier person. Hey, I would like to be happier. I would like to stop feeling like dog poo. I would like to be okay with where I am in life. (By the way, I hope you know that my Mindful Monday posts aren’t coming to you from the other side of strife, like I’ve transcended life’s shitstorms and am meditating over here in Pleasantville. Trust me, I am trudging through the mud with you. I am SO SICK of being sick. I want to punch sick in the nut sack. BUT. These posts are part of MY practice to make myself a happier person and be content with the here and now. Part of my path is summoning up the courage to write about this messy stuff and try to be an example of creating positive change. Annnnd some days are better than others.)

So, what’s the deal? Why are some people able to make positive change (and be happier) while others remain stuck in the same ol’ same ol’?

Shawn Achor says because before we can be happy or successful, we need to first develop the ability to see that positive change is possible. 

Okay, I totally had a lightbulb moment when I heard that for the first time. That’s it. When we are dealing with an issue, and we get that first glimpse that things are turning around for the positive, we develop that ability. And then our perception starts to shift, and it’s like a positivity snowball. For example, say you have been dealing with low back pain forever and ever, and after a visit to the acupuncturist, the pain diminishes, and you’re like, “WOOHOO I’M GETTING BETTER,” and the synapses start firing in your brain and it’s like a happiness partay, and in turn, the healing process kicks in big time. And it’s not just dealing with physical illness…this same cascade happens with all sorts of relationship and personal issues too.

So, is there a way to help develop that ability? I mean, we do sit ups to strengthen our abs…how can we strengthen our ability to see that positive change is possible?

Lucky for us, there are some ways to finesse that part of our psyche, thanks to smarty pants, Mr. Achor. He says we need to create a single, positive change in our life that shows us that our behavior actually matters in regards to happiness. And! The cool thing is that these exercises have been scientifically proven to trump genes and environment. So, if you were born sad to a sad mom and a sad dad, it don’t mattah. You can still change, my friend. These exercises had 85-year-old pessimists turning into, gasp, dare I say, slight optimists!

Are you ready? It’s a 21-day challenge. There are 5 things you can do – try them all or just try one, but the key is that you need to be consistent for 21 days. Don’t do it for 3 days, and be allllll “that was lame…it didn’t work, NOTHING WILL EVER WORK.” If you have that attitude, then yes, you are absolutely right, nothing will ever work. (And honestly I’m being a stickler because I’m the queen of quitting way too early. I am writing this post as a reminder to myself.)

There will be no quitting. NOT TODAY, FRIENDS. Or, you know, for the next 3 weeks. Deal? Deal.

1. Every morning when you wake up, say 3 things for which you are grateful. They have to be new every day – no repeats. Gratitude changes your vibrational frequency, and you will start to notice an abundance of good around you.

Are you sitting there, already doubting this? It’s okay – I felt the same way, but then I told myself that I can’t knock it until I try it. 21 days, here I come. FEEL MY GOOD VIBRATION.

2. Once a day, write down a meaningful experience that you’ve had over the past 24 hours. It doesn’t need to be some dramatic exchange – just something that happened that made you feel happy. You see, our brains aren’t so good at telling the difference between something that is actually happening to us and something that we are recalling or perceiving, so when you write down the meaningful experience, your brain assumes it’s happening for real again, so it’s like double the goodness.

3. Exercise! Once again, yet another expert talks about exercise. Just 15 minutes of cardio per day teaches your brain to believe that behavior does matter, and then that positivity snowball will start rolling.

4. Meditation – Nope, you don’t need to go all transcendental for 30 minutes. Just 2 minutes of slowly breathing in and out a day. This exercise trains your brain to do one thing at a time. Research suggests that a multitasking brain has a harder time falling asleep, is more stressed, and has lower energy. By taking time to relax the brain has a chance to undo the negative effects of trying to manage everything at once.

5. This is my favorite one. For the next 21 days, send a thank you to someone. It can be face-to-face, a phone call, an email, via social media, whatever. Just thank someone for something they’ve done for you. So, in addition to thanking people in my life face-to-face, I’m actually going to do this one on my blog too…I thought about it, and worried that it would be annoying to some of you, but hell, I’m doing it anyway. Starting on June 21st, I am going to write a short post every day thanking someone in the online space for inspiring me. I think I shall call it 21 Days of Praise. #21daysofpraise HASHTAAAAAG

I think you should do it too. How could this be a bad thing? It could be the happiest-making event ever! Can you imagine how you would feel to be on the receiving end of such a gift? Amazing! Adored! Loved beyond all means! I’m possibly going over the top.

I hope some of you will consider sharing praise to the people that inspire you too. Maybe we can do a link-up or something. I have absolutely no idea how to do that, but yeah, 21 Days of Praise. Let’s spread the happy, peeps.


Odds and Ends



1. Have you seen this app that turns your photos into watercolors? I’m slightly obsessed.

2. Heather from Dooce tried my curling iron technique and looks HOT. Dayum, girl!

3. OMG, this post on Tracy’s organized pantry is like porn to me.

4. Eat butterTIME’s new cover on why “the argument against fat was totally and completely flawed.” p.s. – you guys, real food rules.

5. “You can fail at what you don’t want, so you might as well take a chance at doing what you love.” PREACH, JIM CARREY

6. These daily writing prompts are a great way to stay inspired.

7. This post by Rebecca on cutting sugar (especially for little ones) is so enlightening and helpful. A must-read for parents of highly-spirited kiddos.

Happy weekend!